The following list provides examples of behaviors that are prohibited in youth activities, as detailed in the University Standards for Interacting with Youth. All behaviors listed below warrant a response by a youth activity leader. Certain “behaviors of concern” require notification to the Youth Protection Coordinator (uwminors@uw.edu or 206-616-5153), and/or a report to the Washington State Department of Children, Youth and Families – Child Protective Services (DCYF CPS: 1-866-END-HARM (363-4276) or the police (911). Examples listed below are not exhaustive. Contact the Office of the Youth Protection Coordinator for further guidance as needed.
Within each example behavior you will find a continuum of responses appropriate for the behavior listed.
For more resources and downloadable documents addressing unsafe interactions and behaviors of concern, see Additional Resources.
Behaviors of Concern
Supervisory Attention Warranted
- One-time unplanned encounters where the personnel had no access to other adults.
- Private, unmonitored 1:1 personnel-youth interactions that are not observable or interruptible.
Youth Protection Coordinator Notification Required
Youth Protection Coordinator (uwminors@uw.edu or 206-616-5153)
- Recurring unsanctioned 1:1 personnel-youth interactions (planned or unplanned).
- Intentional seclusion of a youth by an adult, whether in person or online.
Report to DCYF CPS or Police & Youth Protection Coordinator
CPS: 1-866-END-HARM (363-4276)
- Private, unmonitored 1:1 personnel-youth interactions that intersect with other behaviors indicating suspected abuse or neglect.
Supervisory Attention Warranted
- Youth-initiated contact to a personal account; personnel notifies supervisor immediately.
- Electronic communication with youth that is not sanctioned by the activity.
Youth Protection Coordinator Notification Required
Youth Protection Coordinator (uwminors@uw.edu or 206-616-5153)
Ongoing contact between personnel and a youth using personal accounts. No disclosure to supervisor about the communication.
Report to DCYF CPS or Police & Youth Protection Coordinator
CPS: 1-866-END-HARM (363-4276)
- 1:1 text or electronic communications that intersect with other behaviors indicating suspected abuse or neglect, e.g., sharing of sexually explicit materials.
Supervisory Attention Warranted
- Youth initiated contact to a personal account; personnel notifies supervisor immediately and takes steps to deter contact.
- Personal communication or contact based on a pre-existing relationship that is disclosed to a supervisor.
- Happenstance meeting in non-activity setting that is disclosed to supervisor.
Youth Protection Coordinator Notification Required
Youth Protection Coordinator (uwminors@uw.edu or 206-616-5153)
- Ongoing contact between personnel and a youth using personal accounts. No disclosure to supervisor about the communication.
- Unsanctioned visit to personal events or home of youth.
- Visit by youth to personal dwelling of personnel.
- Unsanctioned meeting between youth and personnel.
Report to DCYF CPS or Police & Youth Protection Coordinator
CPS: 1-866-END-HARM (363-4276)
- Sharing sexually explicit materials with a youth, or any behavior that indicates suspected child abuse or neglect.
Supervisory Attention Warranted
- Personnel using language or behaviors to discipline youth that could be perceived as developmentally inappropriate, threatening or violent (jokingly or facetiously.
Youth Protection Coordinator Notification Required
Youth Protection Coordinator (uwminors@uw.edu or 206-616-5153)
- Using threatening, derogatory or violent language towards youth that can be perceived as serious.
- Using coercion or intimidation to wield power over youth.
- Any use of physical force for any purpose (including to restrain youth) without a physical restraint policy previously in place.
Report to CPS or Police & Youth Protection Coordinator
CPS: 1-866-END-HARM (363-4276)
- ALL behaviors that meet the definition of physical or verbal abuse.
- Physical force used against youth resulting in an injury or severe psychological trauma.
Supervisory Attention Warranted
- Withholding special privileges (e.g., access to certain extra-curricular activities or special prizes, snacks, etc.) for disruptive behavior.
Youth Protection Coordinator Notification Required
Youth Protection Coordinator (uwminors@uw.edu or 206-616-5153)
Withholding meals, water, toileting, sleep, or other basic needs to discipline youth.
Report to DCYF CPS or Police & Youth Protection Coordinator
CPS: 1-866-END-HARM (363-4276)
- Behaviors that indicate suspected neglect of a child.
- Persistent or egregious instances of withholding meals, water, toileting, sleep, or other basic needs to discipline youth.
Supervisory Attention Warranted
- Youth-initiated frontal hugs or other youth-initiated “playful” physical contact that is considered inappropriate per program guidelines; personnel immediately discloses to a supervisor and addresses with youth.
- Youth-initiated sexual innuendo towards personnel; personnel discloses to a supervisor and addresses behavior appropriately.
Youth Protection Coordinator Notification Required
Youth Protection Coordinator (uwminors@uw.edu or 206-616-5153)
- Physical contact that might be construed as sexual in nature, such as massages, back rubs, etc.
- Sexual innuendo (e.g., flirting, jokes, etc.) between youth and personnel that is not disclosed to a supervisor, or is not deterred by personnel.
Report to DCYF CPS or Police & Youth Protection Coordinator
CPS: 1-866-END-HARM (363-4276)
- Sexual contact or sexualized interactions, in person or online, between personnel and youth indicating suspected child abuse or neglect.
Supervisory Attention Warranted
- Youth initiated romantic expression towards personnel that is immediately reported to a supervisor and addressed with youth.
Youth Protection Coordinator Notification Required
Youth Protection Coordinator (uwminors@uw.edu or 206-616-5153)
- Youth initiated romantic expression towards personnel that is not immediately reported to supervisor, and which persists.
- Personnel initiated romantic overtures or involvement.
Report to DCYF CPS or Police & Youth Protection Coordinator
CPS: 1-866-END-HARM (363-4276)
- “Dating” between personnel and youth, with additional behaviors indicating suspected sexual or physical abuse. Note that any sexual interaction between personnel and youth may indicate suspected sexual abuse.
Supervisory Attention Warranted
- This behavior warrants action beyond supervisory attention.
Youth Protection Coordinator Notification Required
Youth Protection Coordinator (uwminors@uw.edu or 206-616-5153)
- Sharing sexually explicit information or having sexually explicit conversations with youth.
Report to DCYF CPS or Police & Youth Protection Coordinator
CPS: 1-866-END-HARM (363-4276)
- Sharing sexually explicit content with youth. Sexually explicit content includes any detailed or graphic depictions of sexual acts, nudity, or other sexual themes.
Supervisory Attention Warranted
- One-time or repeated tobacco use in front of youth.
- Discussing drug, alcohol, or tobacco use in the presence of youth without a clear programmatic objective.
Youth Protection Coordinator Notification Required
Youth Protection Coordinator (uwminors@uw.edu or 206-616-5153)
- Possessing or using alcohol or drugs during activity.
- Being under the influence of drugs or alcohol during activity.
Report to DCYF CPS or Police & Youth Protection Coordinator
CPS: 1-866-END-HARM (363-4276)
- Selling drugs. Providing alcohol or drugs to youth.
Supervisory Attention Warranted
- This behavior warrants action beyond supervisory attention.
Youth Protection Coordinator Notification Required
Youth Protection Coordinator (uwminors@uw.edu or 206-616-5153)
- This behavior warrants action beyond Youth Protection Coordinator attention.
Report to DCYF CPS or Police & Youth Protection Coordinator
CPS: 1-866-END-HARM (363-4276)
- Any instance of bringing or possessing weapons during activity or around youth.
Supervisory Attention Warranted
- Perceived or actual preferential treatment given to one group of youth over another in the same program (first occurrence).
- Microaggressions that occur in the presence of youth.
Youth Protection Coordinator Notification Required
Youth Protection Coordinator (uwminors@uw.edu or 206-616-5153)
- Personnel making overtly derogatory (e.g., racist, sexist, homophobic, etc.) comments toward youth based on their identity.
- Youth disclosing that they have experienced discrimination perpetrated by personnel.
- Persistent or covert (i.e., intentionally secretive) preferential treatment by personnel despite being previously advised against it.
- Sexual, racial, ability, religious or other identity based harassment of youth.
Report to DCYF CPS or Police & Youth Protection Coordinator
CPS: 1-866-END-HARM (363-4276)
- Assault or other crime motivated by prejudice on the basis of sex, race, ability, religion, etc.
Supervisory Attention Warranted
- Unsolicited gifts received by participants or families that are immediately disclosed to a supervisor.
- Giving gifts to all participants or families, and otherwise within sanctioned activity guidelines.
Youth Protection Coordinator Notification Required
Youth Protection Coordinator (uwminors@uw.edu or 206-616-5153)
- Giving gifts to certain youth with no sanctioned programmatic objective. Not disclosing to supervisor.
- Any perception of favoritism or grooming.
- Asking youth who receive a gift to keep it a secret.
- Receiving a gift from youth and not disclosing to a supervisor, i.e., apparently keeping it secret.
Report to DCYF CPS or Police & Youth Protection Coordinator
CPS: 1-866-END-HARM (363-4276)
- Gift giving or receiving that intersects with other behaviors indicating suspected child abuse or neglect.
Supervisory Attention Warranted
- This behavior warrants action beyond supervisory attention.
Youth Protection Coordinator Notification Required
Youth Protection Coordinator (uwminors@uw.edu or 206-616-5153)
- Transporting youth in a personal vehicle under any circumstances.
Report to DCYF CPS or Police & Youth Protection Coordinator
CPS: 1-866-END-HARM (363-4276)
- Transporting youth in a personal vehicle, along with other behaviors indicating suspected child abuse or neglect.
Additional Resources
- Download the “Red Flag Behaviors” handout developed by OYPC| [PDF]
- Download the “Scenario Training for UW Led Youth Programs” which includes in-depth scenarios to discuss with your staff | [PDF]
- More resources to view and download can be found under “Documents, tools and templates“